Superficial talk during dating
And the thing is, when you push yourself to do something that you've never done, you just might realize it was made for you.
Talking graphically about how you want to be touched and how you're going to touch your partner might revolutionize your sex life — but you'll ever find out unless you give it a try.
As any doctor or sex therapist will tell you, foreplay is an extremely important part of sex, especially for women.
It takes women far longer to get aroused than men, and that's why they don't orgasm as quickly as men do. If you can start with some dirty talk, then you'll be tantalizing each other in ways that are just as important as physical foreplay.
Since one of the most important things in a relationship is communication, it only makes sense that when things get hot and heavy, you should continue to have a dialogue.
Yes, I’m suggesting dirty talk, and yes, if you haven’t given it a try during sex or foreplay, it’s time. While there are plenty of great articles out there about how to talk dirty to your partner, there aren’t enough out there about why you should do it.
There’s also the challenge of overcoming how you view words in the real world and how your view them in the bedroom.Quickies are fun, but if you have the time to take your time, then do it.Set aside a full 20 minutes of just talking dirty to each other before you even remove your clothes and touch each other. It's always nice when you can still surprise yourself, isn't it?I figure if there's no laughing in there at some point, then we've just taken ourselves too seriously.